Dar - That's tough man... I feel for your family. My best buddy lost his job about the same time he closed on his condo and just brought his new baby home.
Keep a chin up. You never know (and I may be conceited on this) it might be a good thing.
The boards are the last priority for you now. If you need someone to blow off steam to, don't hesitate. My inbox and skype are usually open.
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oh yes, and to the reason I'm typing this...
I am REALLY sick in a place called yanshuo with something akin to E.Coli. Throwing up and diarrhea simultaneously can be tricky. I'm laying low for a day or two more until it clears up. Might have a chance to write.