Oh I know how to keep the opponent fighting and I know how to make the opponent give up. To tell you the truth I don't want to join any smug kingdom. No doubt they want me to help there cause, help them look down on others, help them belittle others. I will not have any part of that. If they should come across my province, messing with it, they will lose land, and it will help keep the smug kingdom humble.
Also I'm a nice person so I wouldn't fit in.