People have said the same in other games, where a single group has dominated, until other groups or unconnected single entities come along to challenge. Bascially your post is an attempt at scare-mongering to help foster your anti-Absalom agenda which you have had for years.
Actually Absalom didn't disband for several ages, the longest it was "disbanded" was approximately an age and a half. Frankly there has been little or no discontinuation except for 2 ages where Absalom wasn't an alliance in the game since Age 4. I should know.
I agree that you don't talk about everything in public, except that you seem to. You seem to spend an inordinate amount of your time bewailing Absalom, and/or those kingdoms who are friendly to our alliance.
You said you were retired now, so why do you continue this campaign of anti-Absalom posts, day in, day out? Hardly a week passes by without yet another Stoffi thread talking about our alliance. Apart from the fact we would never let you in, I am truly surprised you haven't tried to join us. Is that it? Did we reject your stalker like advances in an early age and now you have dedicated your life to stopping the "evil empire" that rejected you?
Whatever the reason, you are doing your cause far more harm than good, by basically being the bad PR for people who might otherwise see some merit in some of the points you made.
You've spent so long undermining your own credibility that no one listens any more. Like the little boy who cried "wolf", once too often, even if you make a valid comment, no one will care or listen because its coming from you. However hard that maybe to accept, nowadays your entire campaign is a joke.