I'm running a ghetto. We have about 15 provinces total, with 2-3 inactives, and another 2-3 awaiting activation. There is myself and one other province who are dedicated to the game and the kingdom, as well as another 5-7 who actively participate in kingdom activities (wars, inactive cleanup, etc).
I have very specific goals set up for everyone - that they use Angel, Pimp, and the Forums - as well as being active in attack/sundry ops. However, I lack the ability to compel my kingdom to follow my lead. I am an A/M, and I try to make at least one attack a day, if not two or three, as well as casting spells. We've had one war so far, and we lost, simply because of inactivity. In the ~56 hour war, I made 6 attacks, and my second in command made 3, with several other provinces making between 2-3 attacks. The rest of the kingdom made no attacks.
I'm not trying to deceive anyone. We have a horrible kingdom right now. We're in the bottom 50 (out of ~750 kingdoms).
The position of monarch will not be handed over, but potentially the page/second-in-command could be, if you prove your willingness to be active etc.
Thanks.
(And please no spam, I know we're a ghetto, we don't need to be reminded)