NOOB ALERT!
Sorry guys/gals, I guess I don't understand how declaring war works between kingdoms. I understand that after a certain number of hits (the number depends on type of attack and kingdom status) the kingdom's go to hostile and a war button appears where the king has the opportunity to declare war on the hostile kingdom.
Assuming all my above assumptions are correct here are my questions.
1. What is the war button? Is it just a button that pushes the conflict to war?
2. Do both kingdom's get the war button?
---2a. If only one kingdom gets the war button how is it decided who gets it?
---2b. Do the two kingdoms get the war button at different times?
Thank you for your help in helping me to understand this!