1) Active on IRC (all players use it frequently)
2) Wars a lot
3) Does not require constant activity, meaning no army in-army out type of activity required
4) Has cool players, at least one of which I have played with in the past
5) Doesn't have anyone I hate
6) Not a ghetto
If this describes your kingdom and you need an extra player, come talk to me in #zlove on utonet. I'd consider playing an age or two with the right kingdom.