Well your set-up isnt exactly designed for getting wars, more for winning them. All those halfers will guarantee a long recovery for any kingdom that choses to war you. Nobody likes putting their mages in harms way :)
We was going to wave you and declare on the date when we declared on ED. They got in the way and I believe we didnt have button on you at that time. Right after our war you plundered us to hinder our regrowth all the while keeping the dragon from the initial hostile. After that our stance has been the same: Yes we will war you. But we will not agree on any terms regarding declaration. If you want to war us, you can wave us and we will respond. Thats the same deal we give every other kingdom out there.