This might be daily business for some people, but the situation is the following:
Kingdom A and kingdom B agree to have a war to start in 36 hours. Following arrangements were made:
21st of jan: Dragon projects can be started
24th of jan: First attacks/ops can be made
First one to get the button will declare (his response was. Agreed.. but no hurry...)
No learns during hostile/war
What happened:
21st: Both sides start dragon projects. Our faeries get their thieves exposed on the 21st, contrary to the agreement. I message their King and he says they were trying success rates only and he had to spend stealth because he had to go to work soon.
We initiate hostitilies and we hit their Orcs with their armies home, killing thousands of troops. They've now started a hostile period of attrition but have so far been on the losing end, us hitting them time and again with their armies home. As their King still hasn't declared we started learning aswell.
My question: How to handle in situations like this? What would you do?