It saddens me that this game is still spurred by childish behavior and spite. I came back to playing this game after not having played for...probably a good 5 or more years. Everything was going well until I "outgrew" my kingdom (I had 4,000 more NW than our king). We had a disagreement about my size and I simply said that after my 24 hours was up I was going to defect. Nothing more. Well I forgot that mostly teenagers play this game and he had his kingdom of mindless lackies attack the hell out of me.
Now...I'm not mad. Why should I be, it's just a game. What I am though is mystified as to why you would take it so personally that if someone disagrees with you and offered to leave the kingdom without any trouble, in addition to letting you keep all the aid I just sent out that day, why would you go and do such a damn fool thing? Grow up please.