Form what I have seen from you CP I dont think you should whine too much about QQing (all though whine is all you seem to do anyway so I guess it is what it is). Judging by your past Im guessing that if the roles were reversed your KD would either have done two things, delete or farmout while also crying about "how you just wanted to be left alone and get to whore in peace".
As a side note about the builds, Im guessing they had warbuild so that you wouldnt get half a free wave. But maybe you would have been to scared to wave into fort even against a KD ~15% smaller with econ build in which case it was obviously a misstake to not keep econ builds.