Hi Sheister, i think your big provs were razed because of the following logic:
If you choose to play outside the intended parameters of the game as a solo prov outgrowing a tiny ghetto, then you are responsible for your own fate.
The overgrown prov in the top KDs can't be broken by any prov on the server that they aren't CF'd with, because they did their diplo and positioned themselves such that that was possible.
Your overgrown provs are making it unfeasible for your ghetto to ever develop into a solid KD and get any reasonable wars.
Seriously, are you just being dense on purpose?