For the record, if this seems like a rant, it is not. It's my honest opinion on what I've seen from the differences that I personally dislike between when I played this game in high school, and now. If you disagree, please tell me why.
As a returning player, this game is doing nothing more than to frustrate and turn me away nowadays. I've been back since the beginning of this age, and I have seen some stupid situations.
It is FAR too easy for the aggressor to do pretty much whatever they want. Even breaking T/Ms who are bigger than the rest of the KD is a feasible situation. Military losses when attacking or defending are far too high (even with hosp) and raze hits in war are flat out ridiculous.
I'm sure there are strategies when it comes to winning wars, but each individual province matters very little. The setup doesn't even need to be min/maxed. It's a crapshoot. All this game really comes down to now, is activity, a good leader who knows game strategy, and people who listen.
How did the game fall like this? It used to be so fun. Individual skill made a difference, quadra tapping was a rarity, and maintaining your prov's happiness/dpa/opa/sciences was something that actually took skill. And frankly, it made the game fun. Now? I'm not so sure...it's probably far more community reliant. If you like the people in your KD, you're more likely to stay for a time.