Night: No I am not Monarch, Lord Sampuan is. I help out in some leadership capacity though, and was the first "leadership" person to see the logs from 2 of our provinces that were massively stolen from. Normally we wouldn't care a whole lot, but at the time of stealing we were in an agreed war with a same sized opponent, and you guys were in an arranged war with an opponent. Once you hit agreed war you should not be opping others. Many kingdoms respect your war agreed status and won't do anything to you... it is only courteous to respond in kind by not opping out of your agreed war status for advantages.
2 points I would like to make Night:
First, Night, You have been very reasonable in your assessments of this conflict. Thank you. It does indeed seem like parties outside the conflict are more grieved than those in it.
Second, Please ignore everything Bart and Matija are saying, they are just trolling in their own way. Trying to overescalate the situation.. Just ignore..
P.S - I should note that being that you knew you were in the wrong, you should have just taken the razes and we would have backed off, after just sending a message. Instead you guys razed back full force. That doesnt seem like a kingdom that understands they are in the wrong. You understand that simply a back and forth retaliation doesn't send an actual message. You getting hit a bit without retaliation shows that the message was received. I am not sure of any of the correspondence you maybe have had with our monarch though.