I think that when someone takes over an inactive prov by being invited, they should be allowed to have a ruler gender swap. Yes I am in a way suggesting the allowance of Utopis transexuals, but my aim is more to appease the person who's replacing the inactive. Example: If a female quits the game and a male takes their prov and wishes to be a lord instead of a lady, I belive that option should be available to them without additional cost.