@coss no one said they should give you UF, what I said was they can hit 1:1 possibly with raze as Meep suggested if you are only hitting them once a day, if you hit them more it is them that has ops on you and they should use that insted of hitting back with armies.

Pretty standard tactics that works against the top as long as 90% of your provinces is to small to give gains so all out actions would not be benificial for the bigger kingdom.

If I'd suggested them to go all out and give UF or Hostile that would have been as bad advice as what Bart gave when he suggested to raze into future wars.