Here's the thing, there *are* different rules in the top.
Us and Barco have a mutually agreed to deal.
Most random ghettos do not, they have no obligation to each other beyond morality to not be ****ty to each other.
In the top, we all agree to CF each other because it is mutually beneficial to everyone to plan for fights due to the prep time, and leadership activity necessary, to run top wars.
None of this works if everyone just wants to dodge and ****play each other. I'd love for this to stop so we can all win and lose on merit and fate instead of ****play.
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That said, when I ran ghettos, if I saw a KD with dragons exchanged/slain, some hits, I didn't wave into it.
(Unless of course they're robbing/plundering me from their hostile :p)