Well, perhaps it is good to let the monarch "profile" the kingdom to attract the similar mindset players to their kingdom.

1) Warring kd / growth kd
2) strict wave times / flexible wave time
3) require mandatry external chat app? yes or no
4) require intel sites (upo / munk) ? yes or no

So the new players can select the ones best fit their schedule and commitment.

otherwise under current rules , we have to be killed for not following their kd rules or gotta random move or search for kd in forums or in game takes a day to 3.

Wasted too much time.