I don't see why Ceasefiring someone double your size should be a problem for you or ruin your fun.
The only "rule" I'm trying to force on you is to stay out of my news when you're so far out of our range. The entire game is being designed to ensure people only fight eachother within 75% of their size, why does staying out of our news when you're 50% of our size ruin your fun in any way, why not just op and fight people your own size, as the server has asked the top kingdoms to do for the past 40 some odd ages, and now we're mostly doing.