I'd like a quiz about player's oppinion about PK in war and OOW hits in active wars. Should be allowed or not?

We had small people razed by the theyr kingdom until we lost 5 provinces. Was nasty and unhonorable thing. My opinion. We should do the same if they are in war? This game promoted honour and fun (or I don't understand?). But what they made was wrong. Maybe the rules must be changed?