You're a funny guy. Not finalizing a cf extension deal is a bigger transgression than your friend kd FSU Emeriti and then farmign you 2.5 dragons of gc into active hostile with Emeriti? You obviously have no sense of utopian morals and I guess that explains why you think it's right to deal break and wave kingdoms into wars.
You are correct that emeriti was worried that BB would farm out Bour and that Emeriti suggested that bour could threaten (or actually do) post war razes if bb wouldn't cf him in order to force a cf. Bour didn't say anything like "huh? ok" that I remember reading. You're also correct in that Emeriti leadership didn't stand up to try and stop him and instead encouraged him to do whatever he needed to get his cf. There was no agreement to do this, there was advise and that advice was followed. No deals were broken by Bour or Emeriti (in fact the whole point of it was Bour trying to get a deal.) Neither Bour nor emeriti wanted Bb hurt, both just wanted Bour to get his cf. Bour offered BB all land and extra back from the start.
If you want to call this a conspiracy, then certainly your FSU collaboration and your gc farming into active hostile of your previous age's co-monarch is a much bigger conspiracy.