Hey im in a solid warring kingdom and we need three players to help open up 25 player kingdoms as potential targets. We are very active and went 4/5 wars last age and generally war in top 20 uto kingdoms. Before we got in our current ongoing war we were top 10 in nw while having only 22 provs. We use monk and both Facebook messenger and WhatsApp for communication. There's a very good chance we can get all three of you in ASAP though I can't make promises on two TMs. Respond here or message me with how to contact you and I will pass it on to my leadership council.
P,S. I don't think you sound elitist. Where you play plays a huge part in how much enjoyment you get out of the game. My kingdommates are super chill old school players many who've played together for 10 years and the atmosphere is laid back to a degree but also competitive ( expect aiao or find sitter and use munk etc.)