If you're hoping to gain something from a kingdom you're trying to diplo with, during a CF, doing things that directly hurt that kingdom (i.e. instructing turncoats how to most effectively harm the kingdom) leaves the other kingdom with less reason to want to work with you.
This is one of the most basic tenets of diplomacy and if you can't grasp that very simple concept to understand why talks "suddenly" became ridiculous and Bishop and company "suddenly" became unwilling to work with you then you truly are hopeless. You are the makers of your own misfortune. You have turned what should have been a very minor conflict stemming from an odd set of circumstances into the potential death of your kingdom.
"In our pursuit to exact some revenge on a player that actively worked to harm our kingdom, Dungeon Dwellers engaged a kingdom into an active and ongoing hostile situation. This is something that we do not condone and we apologize for extending our previous issue using those means."
Is that seriously that hard? If you had just apologized with something like that you could have been CF'd, had everyone move on and this whole thing could have been ancient history, but instead you choose to push headlong into a losing battle against a kingdom with absolutely nothing to lose armed with nothing but your tears and cries of how unfair the situation is; all while continuing to insult and demean a kingdom that you still fail realize you need something from.
This isn't on Sheister. This isn't on Pillz. This isn't on Korp. This isn't on Bishop. This isn't on Samsung. This is on you. You are the reason your kingdom is in this situation and you will either be the reason the conflict is resolved or the reason your kingdom falls apart.

