
Originally Posted by
Godly
I'm a man who doesn't sugar coat anything. I tell you exactly what I'm thinking. Some people are put off by that. I really don't care. I'm not a teacher... I'm Michael Jordan telling you how to play basketball.
So I'll highlight a quote from your OP. To me this sounds like someone who is confused why he is being targetted by top kingdoms instead of them hitting each other. It sounds like you think that the top kingdoms are bullying (harassing) smaller kingdoms. Thus, when I read this ****, I say you have a bully/victim mentality. There are other posts in this thread that give similar hints. I don't know you. I can only judge based on your words.
NOW, to answer your questions:
1) What are motives for hitting you? You have inadequately demonstrated a threat of doing so. There are several ways to portray that your land is not easy land.
a) Have offense on the majority of your players (big kingdoms don't like to trade hits)
b) Have some mystics or in general have a lot of WPA/TPA (big kingdoms don't like to be fireballed).
When you are attacked, you must use your resources to damage the kingdom that attacked you. If you fireball their big provinces or retaliate the hits, I guarantee a CF request will be coming instantly. That isn't enough. Don't accept that CF. Set terms of the CF before accepting. Otherwise they'll CF you to remove relations and hit again in 24 hrs. If you have terms, most top kingdoms are honorable enough to abide by them.
Despite what people think, GS are not a deterrent. A safe hit is a safe hit, 20 acres or 200 acres. The only thing GS will do is ensure there are more hits into your kingdom. You must establish fear for people to not attack you. GS are almost always a war-only building. If you are getting hit, you're playing incorrectly to start with* (see below)
2) We have CFs with our competitors because their land is not easy. We would rather CF tough kingdoms and go after weaklings like your kingdom. Once we grow to a sufficient size and run out of targets like your kingdom, we will fight other tough kingdoms. Yes, we are bullies. Welcome to utopia. It's a game of bullying and predators eating prey. If you're expecting isolation due to being new, you're playing the wrong game. You can either accept this, become better and become the bully, or you should probably just quit now.
3) Whats the motive for the second kingdom? If you were a good target for the first kingdom, you are a good target for the second kingdom. Most top kingdoms have core players of very similar talent level. Thus, hits are commonly shared across the board. There isn't collusion. There will never be an instance of top Kingdom A telling top Kingdom B that X is a great target because that just takes away potential land gained from Kingdom A. Not even strong allies will do this.
4) The motive for the kingdom razing you? Probably piss poor diplomacy on your part. I spent 5-10 minutes talking to you on IRC and my takeaway from it was that I would have probably razed you as well. You're somewhat annoying, don't listen, and if you start sending messages to me about honor and justice in utopia and make hits into the kingdom, I would classify you as a monarch who won't listen to reason and move in for the razes to remove the very few threats you DO have. I believe you mentioned your monarch and steward got the razes. So yeah, chances are the razes are 100% on your shoulders for poor diplomacy. Kingdoms don't generally raze just for the hell of it as it isn't giving them anything. This **** is dog eat dog, and if the small dog has a big bark and little bite, they get put down very fast.
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Total Attacks Made 22
Total Land Gained in Combat 1676
Attacks Suffered 1
Times Defeated 1
Total Land Lost in Combat 130
I have taken 1676 acres from players in utopia and have only been hit back one time. That one time was an expected retaliation on a kingdom that we power played that had offense. This is how you play utopia. You make safe hits, don't get retaliated, and you don't run GS. I can, and have, replicate this in any kingdom on the server -- 200k nw or 200 mil nw so there isn't any reason why anyone cant accomplish this. Be the bully.
Hope this helps.