a real "win" means if the war was to go on indefinitely, the winning kingdom will be able to gain all the land and honor of the loosing kingdom. the loosing kingdom, if smart, might withdraw while they still have +acre, but that doesnt mean they've won

basing a win or loss solely on paper is quite a noobish thing to do. korp if u really play in a top kingdom and have warred other top kingdom, then i guess u've learned nothing

as for the comment on DHaran, why does it matter if his kingdom is ghetto or not? so if hes from ghetto then hes not allowed to comment? and who are you to judge his kingdom?