Yet you want to penalize people who are honest and live in the same house where I can't op a country as a half/rogue then my wife as u/d and hit it.
If you dislike cheaters you should dislike the whitelisting system, it opens up for quite alot of cheating. You could as well be playing both provs and there isnt a wife to begin with. What guarantees do you leave that there is actually an wife, your word? ...