Lol you kidding? The first withdraw from us could be considered a loss. After hitting into fortified and you having the initial war waves and a bank, it was just a matter of time before we'd run out of troops. Knowing it wasn't over either way, we withdrew. After war you gave us button and we declared shortly after.
That entire war, at no given moment, you had a chance of beating us. Our offence was still solid; solid enough to take down your larger dwarves, who where even turtling most of the war.
Your cow was forced to turtle to avoid being taken down. At no time your cow supported your kingdom. Trade balance remained the same the entire war, nor did it assist slaying your dragon. The sole reason you warred us twice was because of your attempt to win province crown, as you had no chance of beating Rage in land/nw. We withdrew because we didn't want to reward you for sacrificing your kingdom for over 50k acres just to get your chance on.
The only thing that prevented your cow from not being farmed, was the fact you had diced all age, and we had been fighting a major part of the age, unable to build a solid number of wizards.
The first war can be considered slightly in your favor. The second was a clear loss for you. You'd have only won if we'd stay in war, farming more acres from you but on the downside giving you prov landcrown.