so what you are saying is that you consider ok to raze in other people's war just to have your cows win and you only regret it if it turns out they aren't your enemy... using that logic it should be acceptable for your enemies as well to raze your cows from oow in your future wars since u consider that acceptable gameplay. i think there was enough proof here that it wasn't a farm war: unique count, a 5k acres prov going down in csarmi's kd, csarmi's core topfeeding enemy kd's core. all this proves it was a real and legit war.
csarmi managing to gain 10k acres and not get fireballed while choosing to aid his kd mates and not train defense AREN'T REASONS to raze from oow. they're just retarded pretexts.
what motivated you to act in such dishonorable way is GRRED. ppl don't disrespect you because you attack them. they do it because you pull crap like this and then pretend it's ok. saying that you didn't lead this after admitting you gave your kingdom mates the OK to raze in Csarmi's war is also a lame excuse.