Nothing in your post hasn't been said already.
There is no diplomacy to be done on public forums and it is irrelevant if people feel sorry for you or not.
You're well aware of why we are acting as we are, we gave you notice weeks ago and you yourself posted how "bad our tactics are", you've had enough time to plan and be ready for us. We didn't chose to jump you after a war to be "unfair" but rather this is the first time we've been OOW knowing location.
Saying you've been growing into our range flies in the face of the fact you've been razed by outside KDs on multiple occasions to land drop.