Elit, your posts aren't the model of legiblity either. :P
But a longer TL:DR
ASF apologizes.
Emeriti and Bour panicked after BB war win.
Certain Emiriti leadership had a definite hand in influencing Bour to raze post-war.
Bour did so without waiting for a chance to resolve the situation peacefully.
Talks may or may not be stalled.