Im surprised you made mistake to admit CR was involved in AMA get razes from bour few ages ago during his prep time for war wit pyro. Being massive power played all age from RPP alliance was not enough but you needed to secure this way your KD crown. So you did same what did Emeriti this age (yes you are in Emeriti too) to AMA few ages back.
About situation you refer you miss few key important moments. First this guy (bour) was for me random prov in ghetto we hit week 1 and offered his KD CF, They refuse but we moved on. Short after it we had hostile and during hostile we got hits non stop from this guy from his ghetto. After hostile end we visit him for pay back, his kd gone in war and he got chained so we moved on and didn't bother with him for 5-6+ weeks. Sudden later on age he become very big in farm war and we notice it. Was clear he is going to give his best for mess with us and kill our chances for crown so we take action for take him down when he is refuse all age CF with us.
Main difference is we take defensive action to some one with long history with us all age refusing CF and You/ASF asking guy you know for hit your competitor and take him down so you can gain advantage. Its dirty and lame play. I never asked some one for hit KD im supposed to war.
Let me help you with one more example when you give so many from past: When Dorje intra alliance farmed several millions gold from Havoc during his hostile with AMA what ABS did? Organize GB after we still beat him in 1vs1 WAR. So don't come and complain how other KDs did it to Emeriti when your Alliance have done same intra alliance farming.