You are again missing a point here. You gave notice to 3 kingdoms in first scenario and then Sanc started to hit you and you, to avoid sanc, started hitting HOH. You got the two way hostile yourself.
Here again you gave notice, Emeriti just used the unclosed deal that leshrak and nesta never closed to dodge(right word maybe?) So technically both should be blamed for never closing the deal. Not just one. You cannot clap with one hand!
Now lets take example of Alice, Emeriti & BB! Alice wanted to dodge Emeriti after we noticed them. So they Re-Constructed their deal with BB to 1 hour before our notice deal expired. BB knew about this(flogger and Protector both admitted this) still neither did they inform us about this nor did we cry out this loud as you are doing. Even we were forced to train up from 30% draft under this impression that we will be getting the war. I guess leshrak did talk with you about this.. But that time you simply said yea thats a douche move and went off.
So Why cry when the same Douche move was made on you?