fair enough, i always thought that if the ghetto you were waving was fighting back it was still considered a real hostile since auto declare can happen
i.e. it just seems like if they are "now" in an active hostile that would have started from the same time the first hits began, not when a kd started retaling. Otherwise next time u have an "arranged" top war starting jan 5, and our cf ends jan 8 all i have to do is ask the kd your waving to hold of hitting for 3 hours, I then notice you, let them start hiting/war and i get to wave you the second you exit eowcf instead of needing to hold my notice till then. Note: im NOT saying thats whats going on here but it seems like its a bad precedent to set.