generally speaking, if I got dealbroken like FS last age, like pandas this age, got 3 vs 1'd OOP like you this age, or got hit in end of war for exploring and not responding to an in-game message for 2 hours, I wanted to be able to defend myself without having to make a forum post like you did this age. I can only think of one time since age 40 a kingdom truly ****played my kd, and that kd deleted itself within a week. That's the purpose of an alliance. I got over that ****play since they deleted themselves, you still bring up **** plays done against you from 5 years ago. An alliance will help you get over it sooner.
You'll get said alliance if you make friendships when people get dealbroken. If Emeriti and BB leadership aren't offering whatever support pandas wants given the turn of events the past day or two, your moral compass is broken. do it, then next age when bart or whoever dealbreaks you because you got too big, then pandas should be right up there to support you. that's how it should work.