really, you know they are played fairly? it is awesome you physically visit your friends and watch how they play - just make sure you dont log into your own account while you are at their place.

You need to look at it from their point of view. This game has a horrible rep for cheating - if you are logging in the same place as a kdmate how else do you expect to be treated? If you suddenly log in from the other side of the world then yes, you should expect to be considered a cheater.

The devs stance on cheating was mentioned in announcements and throne room links several times. It is your job to inform them of your situation ahead of time.