What it would take for most KD's is a change in additude and some knowledge.

The change in additude is basicly what Faegan listed as point 3. And ofcourse stop with the victim complex.

Knowledge on the different strategies needed to keep yourself from becomming a farm on higher size can be found quite easy.

Homespump:
Explained it to CJ even though they are 1 of our key opponents.
Putting up cows:
See the strategy boards.
How to get CF's:
Explained it to I think 10+ KD's so far this age. Atleast 20 KD's 2 ages ago when we whored. Same KD's CR was hitting for acres. Bad strategy perhaps for CR since I limit our safe targets group, but I rather see more then less competition.

Any other questions? Make an effort. Go on irc, ask around.