presuming it is true that you hostiled yourself with multiple kingdoms who are smaller / hardly returning then you should accept the wave.
You may need to give a free wave, but thats what happens when you are trying to whore up acres and leave yourself exposed.
shame on rbl for calling in friends to help them.
If the above is false and they are actually exchanging lots of hits with a kd within 30% nw and remotely decent then shame on ama and gfs for this sillyness.
either way whom cares neither kingdom seems relevent to any crown this age. Unless one of them can get large enough to farm out at eoa as that is clearly how crown is decided