Refutable yes. You never took law. Please do not present a flawed disagreement as such.

The argument is that it is not the same experience playing in two separate kingdoms as playing in the same. Simply not feasible to try and express it as the same experience.

Does Utopia have any quests? No. However, when you are in the same war together, it is similar to having a quest together. Same targets, pass potions, cast spells, swing swords. Metaphorically speaking then, it is like a quest from time to time. Sharing that experience together in the same group is completely different. Trust me, I've done both. I hated the "swapping tales of my single player rpg". I would rather share the heat of the battle instead with a trusted sword and shield at my side.