I leave it to someone less nub than me to verify the following. :p

Since game admins leaves it to the player to deal with these sort of matters, this is generally how justice is maintained:
- The dealbroken kd usually files a complaint to a larger kd and asks them for help. The supposed dealbreaking kd does the same, I guess.
- That larger kd contacts other (by the community) respected leaders, asking their opinion and stance in the matter.
- If no resolve is found and a majority of the community agreed that it is in fact a dealbreak, policing starts and ends when the dealbreaking kd agrees to the terms offered, or it keeps taking damage until there isn't much left to lose.

It's common that the policing kds razes whatever acres gained so as not to profit from the incident. They can be seen as an instrument of the community to make sure deals can be trusted and foul play not rewarded.

If you feel mistreated you can appeal in the forum, but whining and repeating old arguments won't help.

At least that's how I like to see it. As good as it gets. Sometimes its more complicated than in this case though :P